The difference between micro and Tattoo

“Take it from me, do not form a scar on the die. The rapid way, I survived.” Chris Cleave, Little Bee

How much of your life you have lived so far?

Are there any moments survival scars on the skin or in your heart or you wear them proudly tattoo, story your body does not hesitate to say?

One night at dinner my son came home from school friend. We had amazing food and amazing conversation and as it is when lots of guys come together, we got to talk about injuries and scars. The boy stood up and said: “Oh, I got the scars to show you.” Over the next 20 minutes, he came to show us all of his scars, they were allowed to show, and we were all balls before to hear the stories and see the proof. He smiled proudly over everything and he knew just as proud that life was not finished with him yet, it would be much more rapid to talk about as he got older.

Listening to the stories of the boy, I could not help but think what a busy, treacherous, boyish, adventurous life he had lived so long and I thought this would not scar he was showing us, these were proud tattoo of life and lived ; He was only 13 years old.

“Tattoos are just the way they are a sign of bravery, development, cultural acceptance The Tattoo represents not only want to accept pain – .. To pass it -. Also need to actively embrace it because life is painful – beautiful but painful … “Nicola Barker, The Yips

There are lessons that we learn in school and what are the lessons we learn in life. I’ve come to believe that when these two different ways of, it is when we wear our history. When I realized and present in the moment of my life that I am, in a way, choosing tattoos I want to type I am and who I want to be.

When something is not going the way I want it that it is a choice I do what I must. When someone hurts me physically or emotionally I can choose to be and to be a victim of damage or I can grow from it and do it and do it as a tattoo honor or shame, and either I can then create teachable moments to share with tour life my. It is difficult, however, to step back in an emotional moment and realize that there is always a choice to make.

A Scar that systematically Got Tattoo

My daughter facing this very crossroads when the man she considered her best friend made what proved the girl was not a good friend at all much less best friend. It sent my daughter a tail spin and for quite a few years ago my daughter tried to work her mind to stop fighting the battle with herself to change friends but to accept what was happening. To make a very long story short, the choice she did in the end was to find a way to receive a girl for who she was and also to take itself that she was to become. Not easy to do at all, but with a lot of patience and practice, and self-love that it has truly managed to step over to the other side of pain and wear its lessons learned as a tattoo on her heart. She feels more power, more right-minded and stronger in his heart, but she has ever experienced. I see it in her eyes and I can hear it in her voice, the way she talks. She believes what she is working with and how it is to work through it and it’s a whole lot of reasons to respect her process. But the question is, how is she doing it? How is it to accept themselves and one that turned out to be nothing like a friend she thought she had? Here are some steps that it took to get to where she is now:

Seek help. The minute my daughter was disappointed in friendship as she spoke to me about it. She also casually spoke with other friends. She enlisted the people She felt comfortable with and asked for their opinion, asked her advice, and asked whether they had ever been anything like this. She even confronted her friend in order to get a better understanding of where this friendship had gotten so on the rails.

By being sensitive to pain, it allowed light to penetrate into the cracks that were forming in his heart. Light acted as laser tattooing her heart with the tools it needed to wisdom and compassion.

“When the weakness, drop by our heads on the shoulders of others. Do not get mad when someone does it. Be honored. For that person trust you enough, even if subtly, ask for help.” Lori Goodwin

Listen. No matter what stories were told her she had enough respect for themselves to just listen to what was said and not said. She took a mental inventory of all the information and let it sit inside her heart for however long it needs to so she could pick and choose the items of information that fit her best.

“Most people do not listen in order to understand, they listen with the intent to reply.” Stephen R. Covey, 7 Habits of highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

Talk it out. There were three different times where my daughter met with “best friend” and tried to let her know how she was feeling. It took a lot more than 3 times to get a friend to understand and to this day is the understanding is still not quite there, but forgiveness has taken root on both sides of friendship and it means a positive change has happened. The part that is most important is to try to keep communication open and honest.

“When you give yourself permission to share what matters to you in every situation you will have peace in spite of rejection or disapproval. Putting a voice to your soul helps you to eliminate the negative energy of fear and regret.” Shannon L. Alder

Take a step back. Step away from the situation long enough to allow the silence and physical space to work it’s magic. Clarity has a chance to surface when the distance is allowed in. Constantly working on the pain and the situation at hand can cause more pain and less clarity. Step back, breathe, take time out and let the dust settle a bit.

“The space between chaos and shape it was a second chance.” Jeanette Winterson, The World and other locations: Stories

Know when to let go. As painful as it has been for my daughter to know she had to get to a place in her heart as she realized that it was more painful to deny who she is now in her own growth to adulthood but to compromise anymore who she has already become in order to save the friendship. She had to let go of what she wanted the relationship to be that relationship to become what it was meant to be all along. Sometimes we only see what we want to see instead of what is actually right in front of us. Skip the control of pain allows us to let go and let each person be who they are now.

“Distance sometimes lets you know who is worth keeping, and which is worth dropping.” Lana Del Rey

Find gratitude. What was my daughter most grateful to have this man as her friend in the first place? When she was able to actually list from her heart all the reasons she was having this man in her life she was able to sit down the pain. People change; life changes us inside and outside. Biography of her friend is not pretty, and unless you’ve walked in her shoes can not know the scars she wears and how deep they cut. Those scars have the opportunity to become a tattoo of pride when her friend is ready to stop being a victim to pain and the past. When my daughter came to understand their gratitude towards friendship friendship had a chance for a new life and a new spirit.

“When you start to recognize the truth of your story, finish the story. It happened, but you’re still here, you’re still able, powerful, you are not your situation. It happened, and you made it through. You’re still prepared to fully with every tool you need to fulfill your purpose. “Steve Mara Tops

In the end, the two friends trying to re-invent their relationship and humble from my perspective it looks to be a beautiful tattoo rather than ugly scars.

How answer a simple text message can ruin your life

You probably think I’ve lost it.

I mean, how could answer text messages ruin your life?
I know you think you can handle the heat. In fact, you may even sort of enjoy it when Ex your text you say that they miss you and you just ignore them. It is as sweet revenge. Here they are, trying to get in touch with you after you caught them lying and cheating and you are able to keep them in the hot seat, wondering if you’ll never give them a second chance.

Admit it. It’s good, is not it? To think that they are beginning to regret their poor choices?

I remember those days. Even back before I learned the concept of do not touch, I would close my Ex from being able to contact me. Then, after a day or two, I would open it. I would just ignore him when he would try to call or text.

I would go days at a time like this, I think, had gradually epic levels of energy longer I held out. I just knew that if I ignore him long enough he would come around to his senses. Especially if I made him stew for a while, he would come back to me to change a man.

Then I opened it with full access to send me a text when he wanted. Then, when he sounded desperate enough, I would send him a short answer. Nothing too emotionally. Just a little something to make him think I would start forward without him. And it worked.

Or at least I thought it did. I fell for the false enlightenment. I fell for his charming smile, seemingly sincere appearance of happiness in his eyes, great sex, and the promise of a brighter future.

I thought I had played it smart, because …

Fast forward seven months – I had been thrown in jail for public intoxication and lost my teaching job one month before the end of the year. I’d just been in my apartment for a few months and had bills to pay and three children.

All because I had answered a simple text.

It happens every day. People lose their jobs, homes, all bank accounts, children and self-esteem because they feel that they can not avoid contact and a “No Response”. Some become dysfunctional, wracked with debilitating diseases such as cancer, heart disease, fibromyalgia. Still others become psychotic and even suicidal. You might be surprised at the number of comments I get on my blog where someone is contemplating ending it all. (If this describes you, call 1 (800) 273-8255 immediately!)

All because they would answer a simple text.

Luckily for me, the public intoxication charge was thrown out, and I was back to teach next school year. However, one humiliation was enough that I had to temporarily go on drugs. Not to mention the main identity work I had to perform to get over the shame and disgrace of my experience.

But not everyone is as lucky. Lives are ruined because targets narcissistic abuse eventually drop prey to uncontrollable need to defend themselves, do narcissistic partners see their point of view, say narcissist how hurtful they have been, involved in magical thinking and various other temptations that go along with that be in a relationship with a man devoid of conscience.

If you are reading this article, that means your partner has gone lines, stuffing goals, and spent part of you that feels irreversible. I am here to tell you that the other will not be the one that defeated all odds. You will not be going to friends and family with the success story of the century.

As hard as it is to no contact, it is even more difficult is what happens when you do not.

Lie and cheat will get worse, the abuse will get worse, and if you have children, they will grow up with a very unfortunate attitude about what relationships are all about.

Going no contact like crap. Some even equate it to death. But the good news is that as terrible and crippling it like in the beginning, there is an end to it. The body and the mind has immense wisdom. They know how to heal itself. Give them a chance.

Kim Saeed’s Empowerment Blogger, no contact Coach, Relationship Coach, Certified self-esteem coach, best-selling author, healing facilitator, and Radio Guest Expert. Her area of expertise include helping survivors of narcissistic and emotional abuse to loosen and begin their journey of recovery through change limiting their narrative scripts and learn holistic methods of healing.

After her own pain compounds (as she discovered later with narcissists (one overt, covert one), she began her career as a base to attack the teacher what has now become a worldwide campaign for empowering men and women to leave unhealthy relationships and restore personal power and self-love.

Befuddlement and Confusion

Just when it seems that everything is on the right path to travel down the river of life in a safe and progressive pace, befuddlement and confusion tend to enter the Drift. It may be a sudden decision which appears without warning, changing the current of the family runs, or simply idiosyncrasy of the moment. Some doctors or set course almost immediately, others wait Rapids, and some just never get with the same direction again, choose dead-end, no end channel to nowhere. Which brings changes and challenges, growth and development of the individual’s heart and soul.

Sudden decision can throw befuddlement in the picture. My cousin recently completed an unhappy marriage. Although he is my cousin and my prejudice is obvious, it seemed like his ex-wife just did not enjoy the thrill and excitement of trying new things, go new places, and meet new horizons. She definitely does not like current life. And then after a few years to try love, she, moving back to his home state, take the children and go to his military career. Fortunately he landed on both feet, again the best track for long-term Marine commitment, and soon met a lovely woman with whom to share his life. Some family members were left in befuddlement and confusion over seemingly quick decision and his remarriage, but I just saw the joy on his face and of his new wife along with a smile and her children. Advice would beat him from fifty had if he had asked and asked, instead he chose his way and we are quite happy.

Sometimes it hits the current family floats rough currents that jostle group left and right. Another uncle who is a dedicated father and husband was tragically after when his wife chose it perfectly fit body and newfound friends of marital bliss. This exit includes his son, his dog, her home, many of her belongings with her husband for dating, drinking and find themselves. While I wish her luck, I’m saddened by the great choice of her leaving the rest of us in amazement and confusion. Just when we thought we really knew her, she was known, take a side trip while we ran a stream. Fortunately again, my cousin is getting both feet under him again as he recognizes the love and comfort of his family closer. Why do truly good people end up in such horrendous circumstances?

And then there’s abnormal behavior, it defies understanding that it lacks logic and realism. Off of my sisters sons and friends of decisions that cause me to wonder. I helped her through the loss of the first husband, a kind of person that I do not really know well. When she married was in my house with my husband and I as a witness. Her husband was a longtime friend and the four of us were very comfortable relationship. Their marriage was short and he died of lung cancer, but I was in love and support. Imagine my surprise when I hear through the grapevine that the community she has married (and why not), but I’ve never heard the word, even after several months of this marriage amendment or any of the other changes she has made. I wish her happiness and do not begrudge her position in any way, it just seems unusual friendship. I am both astonished and confused.

While all of these circumstances, befuddlement and confusion, I also celebrate the opportunity for change and challenge, growth and development. I’ve learned about adaptation and change the way people, pause for a new life while true friends and family pick up the pieces and rearrange them with love, and I’ve had a wonderful study of friendship, stability, and a review of prospects and goals. Each of these produces enriched mind and the goodness that I refocus, rethink and reorganize my life. I guess that befuddled and confused has many rewarding points.

Turn unhealthy relationship Into healthy relationship

How to Turn an unhealthy relationship Into a healthy relationship

Falling in love is like soaring with eagles, but unhealthy relationship can bring you crashing to the ground. We’ve all been there a time or two. In the beginning, you love each other so much that all the world glimmers and glows. But this perfection gives way quickly to ups and downs, even in a healthy relationship.

Unfortunately, many couples break up like this romantic high wears off, leaving them with the reality of real love. They let ordinary matter contact rip them apart rather than bring them closer together. Obviously, a healthy relationship can not develop without two people to continue together.

There is no way around the truth: Relationships require work. No two people are the same and sometimes painful differences create misunderstandings. Moreover, people do mistakes. No matter how good the intentions, both parties in the relationship will change from time to time. If you want to turn an unhealthy relationship in a healthy relationship, preparing to deal with these realities.

The tips below will show you how to rekindle love and turn a bad relationship around; but you do not have to wait until after the break up. Start early. As soon as the contact issues pop up, face them head on. The trick is to fix a broken relationship, before it breaks up.

How to Turn an unhealthy relationship Into a healthy relationship

1. Stop rehashing the past.

It is important to discuss the issues in your relationship, but it does not bring up the past in every argument. In order to grow as a couple, especially after the break up or communications break down, you have to forgive each other. Of course, forgiveness does not come easily; but you have to decide, once and for all, whether to let pass go or let the relationship go.

If you spent any time broken up with your love, you know how hard it is to be apart. So, prepare to continue. That means, no more trying to make your partner feel guilty last mistake. Do not bring up the past when having a dispute at the moment, and not using the past to justify current feelings or behavior. There is no way to turn an unhealthy relationship in a healthy relationship while retaining the old frustration. The festering anger and constant rehashing the past will lead to bitterness, bad arguments, and a dismal future. Do not let the past ruin your future. You can create a new, better memories together; but only if both parties willingly forgive the past.

2. Deal with the real relationship issues.

Forgiving the past does not mean ignoring connectivity issues. Unhealthy relationships often comes from inattention underlying problems. In the past, you can argue over everything without deciding anything. Or you may have dealt with symptoms relationship issues rather than digging up the root cause.

For example, if all blew up one of you was unfaithful, the emphasis may be landed squarely on this one act of fraud. Cheating is horrible and inexcusable, but it is almost always a problem under the surface. Were you feeling vengeful, met, or insecure? Did your partner feel ignored, unloved or neglected? Had your relationship become too mundane or boring? Did you miscommunicate your wishes? Is your spouse not ready for total commitment? Sometimes it is hard for the points to discover all the underlying issues, so do not hesitate to bring in a neutral third party. That could mean going to couples counseling or use online relationship repair sources.

Once you understand the root cause, you can clearly see whether it is fixable. If so, develop a solid plan to prevent the break-up and breakdown of your love. Make sure that you both agree on this solution, as it takes two committed partners to turn unhealthy relationship to a healthy one.

3. Give your all. Do not hold back.

Some couples feel insecure when increased love after breaking up or failure. It is tempting to hold back, just in case something goes wrong again. But this approach sets you up for failure. Try to find comfort in the fact that your partner chose to work things out with you, even though it may be easier to give up the unhealthy relationship.

Many couples break up rather than just fix a broken relationship. Instead you are working to build a healthy relationship. It makes your love special. Use this knowledge to promote feelings of security, so you can give your all in touch.

Do not hold back out of fear or distrust. Do not put your love on probation while waiting for something else to go wrong. Set your mind on healing relationships gap, loving each other more completely, and create good memories together. You would not take the time to read about how to turn an unhealthy relationship in a healthy relationship if you do not love your partner enough to try.

When relationship problems (and they will), remember that it takes more work to be in love and fall in love. Also remember that it is worth. True love lasts because the two men refuse to give up on love is worth fighting for. Best regards and happier relationship with you!

Relationships

If one were to think of someone they appreciate, there is a strong chance that they will end up feeling ‘good’. However, if they were thinking about someone who presses buttons of, for example, they are unlikely to have the same emotional experience.

And when they feel good, there is not much chance of them will blame the other person for how they feel. However, this is not necessarily going to be the case when it comes to the emotional experience they have when they do not feel this way.

Pleasure Seekers

People want to feel good, and as a result of this, they will often go out of their way to experience pleasure. So when a man spends his time around someone who they enjoy being around, they are not going to tell the other person to change their behavior.

This can happen if they were to change, and one no longer felt the same way about them. But in most cases, they are not going to have the need to tell the other person to “stop I feel like.”

On The Other Side

If, on the other hand, one does not feel “good” when they are around someone, they can end up blaming them for how they feel. This can relate to someone they spend a lot of time or it may relate to someone they see on the odd occasion.

How do they feel when they are around them has since got nothing to do with them, and it can then be natural for them to see the other person as the cause. What is happening within them is inappropriate, and there is no need for them to engage in the kind of introspection.

Validation

One way for them to get support for their prospects and to prove how they feel has nothing to do with them, is to get support from others. These people can then verify what is happening and tell them that it has nothing to do with them.

As a result of this support, there is then no reason for them to take responsibility for how they feel. But while they can get to be “right”, it is not going to give them a chance to see if they are playing a part in what is happening.

Another Perspective

However, there is always a chance that they will come across someone who responds to them differently. When this happens, they may encourage them to go in and see why they feel as they do.

And if they were to do this, they can begin to understand why they feel as they do when they are about another person. This is not to say that how they feel is “wrong”, but it will give them the opportunity to take responsibility for how they feel.

Disconnected

When someone is in touch with their thoughts and feelings, it will make it easier for them to see why they feel the way they do. If they do not have this connection, their feelings may seem to be the result of it is taking place outside.

It is then not going to be possible for them to see whether it is taking place within them is to play a part in how they feel. Their attention will be on what someone else has said or done.

Two Parts

And while it is important to look at what is happening outside, it is also important to look at it is carried out on the inside. If we look only at what is happening outside, they will end up feeling like a victim.

However, if they only look at what is happening within them and do not reflect what is happening outside, they will also be out of balance. Instead of being in the position that they are to avoid responsibility, they will be in a position where they have to take too much responsibility.

Responsibility

For example: if you feel angry, they could blame the other person or they could take their time to think about why they feel as they do. And instead of telling the other person that they make them feel angry, they say angry when they do or say something.

The first approach is likely to make the other person defensive, and if this happens regularly, they can begin to experience frustration. The person can continue to be there physically, but they can begin to emotionally disconnect from them.

The second method

When they take a different approach, there is less risk that the other party is defense. This is because man is not to blame them for how they feel; they are simply pointing out how they feel when something occurs.

There is then no need for the other person to experience the frustration and it will be easier for them to maintain their emotional connection. To the one to take this approach, they need to be in touch with how they feel and to have an emotional experience.

Growth

By taking responsibility for the way they feel like to blame others, it will give them the opportunity to grow and to work through the problems they have with others. Blaming others may allow them to feel better in the short term, but it will not allow them to grow and it is likely to have a negative impact on their relationships.

Awareness

There one finds it difficult to have an emotional experience, this can be a sign that they have not developed goals and they have emotional structure. By dropping their emotional build, they will begin to develop a sense of self.

They will then be able to see where they begin and end, and where others begin and end. This is something that can occur with the help of a therapist and / or a support group.

When we say we know the people

Imagine what it would be like to truly know someone, to understand what makes a person tick, to recognize the strengths and foibles of another, to walk in someone else’s skin. Well, the more I think about this, the more frightening the idea must. In many ways I hardly know myself as I discover the secrets and mental meanderings, hidden talents and specific weaknesses of each minute of the day. Every moment is an adventure as I learn and discover something new about the inner tick ing my, I can not envision psychological overload that would come to know that someone else at 100% capacity. And so the proposal that we really only know a summary of other people, but why is this so?

First, every experience every day is unique to the individual. Two friends can be in the same place at the same time to monitor the event, but who will interpret the vision based on personal outlook, experience and interpretation. This is one way to explain how two children born in the same family with the same parents and the genetic background can be so different in appearance, behavior, attitude, physical ability, and every other aspect of being human. Even twins who are said to have a special relationship that exceed the notes are different in subtle ways. They have a genetic make-up that matches the emotional and inner make-up that resonates in some way.

Secondly, life guides us in various directions and thus range perspective when surveying scene or make a crucial decision. Our attitudes vary and so do the points-of-view us. Even people who seem to agree on all choose different courses and routes from time to time and perhaps very often. Life Lock-step would be pretty dull and unadventurous. I do not think perfect synchrony would lead to happiness because I believe that diversity adds zest and joy.

Third, do not allow us to truly know another is that we are not in control, other than if a friend is robotic or automaton. I can barely control your own thoughts and feelings and so I can not even picture a domineering power over someone else. I think next time I come to this in childrearing though even has many twists and turns that do not allow me to truly know my children. I have offered guidance and supervision, my viewpoint and philosophy, and I’ve tried to set a positive example in my attitude and my behavior, but it is up to them to use, own and dispose of the appropriate person their wants and needs.

Even though we meant to know people, when it comes to deep-down soul searching understanding, we really only know the outlines. I know my colleagues at work, but I do not know them in their homes. I know my spouse when we are together, but I do not know all aspects of his thinking even then and after 40 + years and I can not exactly determine his thoughts, actions and reactions. I know my kids, but then again I do not, and the same holds true for family and friends. But I rather like the outline visualization because it adds magic and wonder of relationships. Change and change are an excellent tool to maintain brainpower and so I am thrilled at the prospect of getting to know others better, but never in total capacity.

When we say we know the people, we really only know Overview

Imagine what it would be like to truly know someone, to understand what makes a person tick, to recognize the strengths and foibles of another, to walk in someone else’s skin. Well, the more I think about this, the more frightening the idea must. In many ways I hardly know myself as I discover the secrets and mental meanderings, hidden talents and specific weaknesses of each minute of the day. Every moment is an adventure as I learn and discover something new about the inner tick ing my, I can not envision psychological overload that would come to know that someone else at 100% capacity. And so the proposal that we really only know a summary of other people, but why is this so?

First, every experience every day is unique to the individual. Two friends can be in the same place at the same time to monitor the event, but who will interpret the vision based on personal outlook, experience and interpretation. This is one way to explain how two children born in the same family with the same parents and the genetic background can be so different in appearance, behavior, attitude, physical ability, and every other aspect of being human. Even twins who are said to have a special relationship that exceed the notes are different in subtle ways. They have a genetic make-up that matches the emotional and inner make-up that resonates in some way.

Secondly, life guides us in various directions and thus range perspective when surveying scene or make a crucial decision. Our attitudes vary and so do the points-of-view us. Even people who seem to agree on all choose different courses and routes from time to time and perhaps very often. Life Lock-step would be pretty dull and unadventurous. I do not think perfect synchrony would lead to happiness because I believe that diversity adds zest and joy.

Third, do not allow us to truly know another is that we are not in control, other than if a friend is robotic or automaton. I can barely control your own thoughts and feelings and so I can not even picture a domineering power over someone else. I think next time I come to this in childrearing though even has many twists and turns that do not allow me to truly know my children. I have offered guidance and supervision, my viewpoint and philosophy, and I’ve tried to set a positive example in my attitude and my behavior, but it is up to them to use, own and dispose of the appropriate person their wants and needs.

Even though we meant to know people, when it comes to deep-down soul searching understanding, we really only know the outlines. I know my colleagues at work, but I do not know them in their homes. I know my spouse when we are together, but I do not know all aspects of his thinking even then and after 40 + years and I can not exactly determine his thoughts, actions and reactions. I know my kids, but then again I do not, and the same holds true for family and friends. But I rather like the outline visualization because it adds magic and wonder of relationships. Change and change are an excellent tool to maintain brainpower and so I am thrilled at the prospect of getting to know others better, but never in total capacity.

What are the Top 7 Secrets of Successful relationship?

Why is it that some connections are successful while others tend to fall apart, even when you had made an effort to give your best? What are the key secrets to a successful relationship? It is important to know that building long-term bonds are not easy and there are many factors that make them successful. You need to constantly nurture your relationship, if you want it to succeed.

Top 7 secrets to a successful relationship

    Communication is very important – it is probably one of the simplest ways to have a successful relationship together yet most do not realize its importance. When you communicate with your partner, you are not just talking to them, but also to share the deep feelings of love. When you are open and honest about your thoughts and feelings, you will be able to build up long-term bonds.
    Be realistic in your expectations – Most couples have unrealistic expectations of their love life and this destroys a perfect bond. You should not be over possessive and give each other room to grow.
    Be honest and respect each other – It is extremely important that you respect each other. You need to be honest with yourself and do not pretend to be the person that you are not. It would be best to avoid lies as it can damage trust your partner.
    Learn to forgive and forget – Disputes between spouses are inevitable and instead of playing the blame game, it would be best to forgive and forget. If you carry resentment against your partner, you will be stifling and suffocating your relationship. Everyone makes mistakes and when you forgive your partner, you must earn love and respect.
    Understanding and sharing – If you want your company to evolve over a period of time, you will learn to understand what your partner wants. You should also be willing to share your thoughts and opinions and does not keep them closed.
    Attempt – You will be working hard on the relationship, if you want it to succeed. When both of you put so much effort, it will strengthen it. If only one of the partners is to make an effort and the other is not, then eventually it will turn sour.
    Be friends – couples who remain friends will be able to nurture each other. This will help in building bonds further and you will be able to deal with any issues you might have.

Successful relationships do not happen overnight. It requires a lot of effort and understanding from both parties to make it work. It is important to understand that you are responsible for your happiness and your partner.

If you want to love you have for each other to last, you need to have the right mentality and spend time with each other. You would be able to take the relationship from strength to strength when you love each other with all your heart.

How to Become a more interesting Man

Every woman wants to be an interesting guy. If you are not interested, you will find it hard to attract women. So how to become a more interesting person?

Live fun life. Living like life does not mean you do not take life seriously, but lives a fun life is to enjoy life while you take it seriously. Sitting around at home or in cubes or glued to your gadgets all day will not help you become a more interesting person. Go out and socialize with people. Learn about the people, places and events around you. Meet interesting people, listening to new music, watch new movies, visit new places and try new things. Be childlike and fun to be with.

Be interested. It is so simple, become interested in anything and everything around you and you will become a more interesting person. You should be open to new things and new ideas. Get out of your comfort zone and to interest even the things outside your area of ​​interest. Ask questions and be curious and explore things. The world is full of interesting things, are you taking advantage of it?

Have a positive attitude about everything. There are many negative people in this world, perhaps because life is often depressing and frustrating to many. But you must realize that life is hard enough and be negative makes it harder. You can become an interesting person if you are very positive and upbeat about everything.

Surround yourself with interesting people and make new friends. People are the most interesting challenges in this world. Learning from people’s experience, skills or knowledge can help you become a more interesting person. Seek out like-minded people who can bring positive changes in your life. Surround yourself with interesting people and you will become one. Join clubs, groups or enroll in a class to meet interesting people and make new friends. Another way to meet new people is to participate in your community. Volunteer in your community and you’ll not only meet new people, but you can also help people around your community.

Traveling more. Travel can help you become a better and well-rounded person. New experiences gained from traveling are priceless. Travel can help you become a more interesting person. The more places you visit more interesting you will become. Travel can help you become better at treating people better at making friends and better conversations. Traveling you more confident, more adventurous, more knowledgeable and happier.

Read widely. Anyone who reads a lot is an interesting person. You’ll never run out of people to talk about because you have a huge bank of information obtained through reading. Read books, newspapers or anything that can put value to you as a person.

Have some hobby or learning new skills. You can become an interesting one if you can do it that not everyone can do. Do not limit yourself in your everyday life, but incorporate some hobbies like playing sports, gardening, photography or learn new skills such as playing a musical instrument, carpentry, cooking, learning a new language, learn how to build or make things etc. Learn as much as possible, but most importantly, enjoy everything you do.

Be passionate man. It is important to incorporate passion in everything you do. If all you do is done with passion, the result will be amazing and you will be an incentive to others.

Share things you’ve learned. The fastest way to learn what you learn is by teaching others. It is not only rewarding to see someone learn from you, but it is also good to do. Anyone who knows how to share is not only interesting but also admirable.

You need to know to be of interest does not mean you have to do special things that you can be interesting to do simple things.

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